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WLID: Six Frequently Asked Questions about Eliminating Debt

As I help people eliminate debt and build wealth, there are many questions that I get asked. But some of those questions get asked over and over again. In today’s blog I decided to put together a Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) page, in the hopes it will help answer some of the more common questions.

 Q: Should I borrow from my 401(k) or IRA to pay off debt?

A: This is a big mistake, and will be the most expensive money you ever remove from an account. The IRS calls this a Hardship withdrawal and has very tough restrictions on these types of withdrawals. You can also participate in a 401(k) loan that have to be paid back.

Hardship Withdrawal:

  1. Tax Penalties: Depending on your tax bracket you will be hit with a very high and expensive tax penalty, that could be as much as 25% or more of your withdrawal.
  2. Early Withdrawal Penalties: There is also a 10% early withdrawal penalty on top of the taxes owed.
  3. Contributions Stop: After a hardship withdrawal you are not allow to make contributions for six months. This means you could lose out on employer matching during this time.

401(k) Loan:

  1. If you get laid off or quit your job, the entire balance is due in full, usually within 60 days.
  2. If you can’t pay the balance the IRS considers this a distribution and the levy a 10% early withdrawal penalty.

But as I said above this would be the most expensive money you ever withdrew. Here is an example of what it would cost to withdraw $50,000 from your 401(k), with a 28% federal tax bracket, and a 6% state income tax bracket.


For more information on Hardship Withdrawals and loans go to



Q: What is a rain-day fund?

A: A rainy-day fund sometimes called an emergency fund is a security blanket to help get through the unexpected events that will happen while you are living life. This could be for a home repair, car repair, unexpected medical bills, or even a job loss. This fund is not a Christmas gift fund, or vacation fund, it is solely for those unexpected emergencies that Mr. Murphy will send your way.

When following BreadCrumbs to Financial Freedom, in step three you will save up $1000 as a starter emergency fund. And as you work the 12 steps to financial freedom, in step six you will build your rainy-day fund up to six months of expenses.


Q: Why should I pay off my smallest debt first, by bigger debts have higher interest?

A: In most cases when someone is in a bad financial situation, it is not something new to them. It is a learned behavior over time. Most people that are in dire straits and are hitting rock bottom are very emotion, and spend and make bad financial choices due to all the pain they are feeling. Funny thing is most people never change and permanently get out of debt until they have hit rock bottom. Most people will never change a behavior such as over spending until the pain of staying in debt is greater than the pain of changing.

Once a person makes a choice to change, they need encourage me to stay the course. People that go to AA have their meetings and their sponsor to help keep them accountable and encouraged. But in most cases people getting out of debt and changing a lifetime behavior don’t have a support group, but still require some kind of pat on the back to keep pushing forward.

That is where the “Debt Reduction Ripple Effect” comes into play in step five of BreadCrumbs to Financial Freedom. If you pay the minimum on all your debt and go to town paying off your highest balance debt because it has a higher interest rate, it could take you a very long time to see a difference in the balance and pay it off. If you go to long without seeing results you will give up.

If you pay the minimum on all your debts and pay as much as you can to your smallest balance debt, it should hopefully be paid off pretty quick. The excitement of paying off that first debt will give you momentum to crush the 2nd smallest debt. It is all about seeing results and staying focused.


Q: How do I stay focused and stay on my budget?

A: Rule One, Make A Plan – Work The Plan. The twelve steps in BreadCrumbs to Financial Freedom is really a plan to eliminate debt and build wealth, and if you stick to the plan and work the plan you will see amazing results.

  1. Set some obtainable goals of things you would to accomplish in the near and distance future.
  2. Create a written budget. Most people try to keep everything about their finances in their head, and this only leads to one thing STRESS. It is a very liberating feeling to get all of your income and expenses down in writing, no matter if it is in a spreadsheet or on paper. Even if you use a spreadsheet I recommend you print it and put it up on the wall and look at it daily. Go to http://whyliveindebt.com/wlid-bc and down load our budget calculate in Microsoft Excel or printable PDF format, fill it in and get started on your new life today.


Q: Should I stop putting money in my retirement, to pay off my debt?

A: There are a lot of experts out there that say yes you should stop putting any money into retirement, so you can use all the extra money towards paying off debt. And I agree to that for the most part (wait for it here comes the but clause). The one exception of when I disagree with all the other experts is when your company is matching your retirement contribution. If your company is matching you dollar for dollar up to 5% of what you put into retirement, then I say lower your contributions down to the same level as what the company matches. So in this example set your contributions to 5%. If you don’t take advantage of the matching contributions it is like throwing free money down the toilet.

  1. If your company does not match your contributions stop your contributions till your debt is paid off. Take all the extra funds and put them towards your debt.
  2. If your company does match your contributions, lower your contributions to the same level as what they match.


Q: Should I take out a second loan on my home to pay off my debt?

A: You cannot rob Peter to pay Paul, or borrow your way out of debt. In most cases people that are in financial destress are looking for a quick fix, and think that consolidating all their debt onto a home loan or transferring the debt around on different credit cards is going to help them pay it off faster. When in fact in most cases this consolidation will actually cost you more and take longer to pay off.

The other factor here is the human factor. If you are that desperate that you are looking for a quick fix, you are not getting to the root of the problem. The issue is that you are dealing with bad habits that have been molded over years and years. You have to change the person inside as you work very hard to get out of debt. I have always told myself “The easy way is usually the wrong way” or in reverse “The hard way is usually the correct way”. I have found that when I’m at a cross roads in life, if I take the hard path I usually come out better then when I take the easy path.

The only real way to get out of debt is to “Make a Plan – and – Work the Plan”. In other words create a written budget, stay focused on the prize, pat yourself on the back for your wins, get extra jobs, and live on less than you earn.

Go to http://whyliveindebt.com/wlid-bc and down load our budget calculate in Microsoft Excel or printable PDF format, fill it in and get started on your new life today.

I look forward to working with each and everyone one of you in the near future, and remember, each new day is another chance to change your life – you just have to find the right path.






3 Responses on WLID: Six Frequently Asked Questions about Eliminating Debt"

  1. Mitch says:

    Great Post, 3 of the 6 questions were topics I was looking for answers on, This blog was on topic for me

  2. I’ve been thinking on changing my retirement contributions to funnel more towards my debt. I just feel behind on my retirement already. Something to do the math on.


    • Rebehah – I understand where you are coming from, due to some very ugly divorce experiences in my past I spent my entire retirement fund on lawyers. So not only did I have a ton of debt after the divorce, I had no retirement fund at 45 years old. I had a really hard time mentally not maxing out my retirement funds when the dust settled. But I set my 401K at 4% which was my company match, and went to town on my debt. Threes later I had zero debt (except for my home loan), and I bumped my retirement up to 15%, and it is growing very fast. I have some other very interesting ideas on how to increase your input into your retirement, and have other people put that money into your Roth IRA for you. I will share these ideas in future blogs. So Stay Tune for future blogs.

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